You’re telling the court this isn’t your first time and you have issues with controlling your penial ejeculation, more so you tell her you’re sorry for rubbing your crouch on her, well excuse me sir! Talk to this hand because no lady is gonna buy that cover story.
I find it disturbingly ironic that the convicted ( Chong Weien) is a top NUS graduate of PSYCHOLOGY.
Wouldn’t he have learnt during the course of his study the different way and methods to having higher thresholds to certain elements we want to gain more control of? Such as pain for instance, if we get a cut and tell ourselves it doesn’t hurt,it will eventually hurt less. Same for him, if he could try to keep his fantasies under wraps a little more, he wouldn’t have gotten himself into trouble. Moreover, since he already had a similar conviction before, he should have some form of medication or counselling sessions right? Medication such as ‘hormone blockers,suppressants such as sedative drugs or tranquilizer drugs may be used, according to Dr Lim, a andrologist at the Urology & Continence Centre at Gleneagles Hospital.
Haptics, a form of non-verbal communication, a study of ‘touch’. Is there a possibility that Chong’s use of haptics could be misunderstood? Quite unlikely I’d say. One of the principals of non-verbal communication is that the latter is undervalued. However, in this case any person should value it more as solid evidence, evidence to prosecute the criminal and put him away for good till after a good successful round of rehab.
Okay, let’s look at the story from the victim’s point of view.
Outraged. Affected modesty. Emotional trauma.
It’ll probably take her awhile before she gets over this issue. Women and their emotions yes I know.
Don’t mind me for saying this but, physical appearance (also a form of non-verbal communication) could have played a part in this too. We somewhat tend to associate appearance with personality in society today, I mean come on, if the male was a Johnny Depp or Christian Bale or Andy Lau look-alike would she have reported the case? (Hey personally I would still report the case to the police okay!)
Doctors say POSSIBLE BUT RARE.
My take on this: Chong should be charged and be on some form of probation to monitor that there is improvement in his condition.